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  Disfellowshipping Offense

  by Had To Go in

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  so i went to my sister's wedding this past sunday, which happened to be smack dab in the middle of a church service.

  my all faithful husband told me it was a dfing offense and that he was obligated to tell the elders that i was going to a church.

  i really could care less about the actual act of being df it is the fact that my husband felt the need to "turn me in".

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  JWs and Counseling/Psychologists/Therapists

  by Had To Go in

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  hello - i am hoping that some born-ins, still-ins, elders (ex), ms, etc.

  can help me with a question i have.

  what is the typical jw thought on seeking counseling via a licensed therapist or psychologist?

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  If Your Husband (wife) is Still In - -

  by Had To Go in

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  do you vacillate between caring that he/she is still entrapped in this cult and wanting to show them everything you have learned since your awakening and not wanting to rock the boat and therefore just keeping all this knowledge to yourself?

  i wonder if it is normal to go back and forth like i do.

  one day i want to tell my husband something i may have read here or on another forum and maybe, just maybe i will pique his interest.

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  Are you a fader, Df'd, DA'd, or Still In?

  by brotherdan in

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  i thought this would be an interesting poll that would show everyone the backgrounds of all of us when we left, if we have.. for myself, i am not df'd, but i am attempting a fade.

  i still go to some meetings with the wife to help with kids, but that's it.

  no commenting or field service.. what about everyone else?.

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  Jehovah - The Hearer of Prayer?

  by Had To Go in

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  hey!

  i made my intro post this past weekend and briefly mentioned my dilemma.

  here is a link in case you are interested or need to refresh your memory.. http://www.jehovahs-witness.net/members/private/199811/1/introduction-warning-its-complicated.

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